10 Dating DO's and DON'Ts
Finding a date for a single dad like me is sometimes difficult. Equally, I am hesitant to disclose my marital status to a prospect, it might turn her off. Is there an easier way to do this? What are effective conversation starters? Are you on the same predicament as I am? No worries. Here is the good news, let an expert dating coach like Dan Bacon teaches you how. Not only have that, better yet, attend singles events that his organization hosts to sharpen your social skills.
Meanwhile, let me share 10 do’s and don’ts to guide you on your next date:
Meanwhile, let me share 10 do’s and don’ts to guide you on your next date:
1. DO dress appropriately and neatly. Wear something that looks your best and be sure that you smell good.There you go. Enjoy your next date okey.
2. DO NOT be late! Women hate waiting. Besides it immediately creates an impression that you do not value her.
3. DO behave appropriately and gentlemanly. Observe proper dining etiquette and other good manners that portrays of a decent gentleman. Act and talk natural. Do not try to impress her with any acrobatics.
4. DO compliment her. Her dress, bags, shoes, or anything that would create an impression that you are mindful about the way she looks. Remember that she prepared considerably for your date too. She took the efforts of appearing at her best for you. Pay her that compliment, she deserves it, and she’ll love you for it.
5. DO put her at ease by setting the tone of your conversation. Create a relaxing atmosphere by picking a topic that you might have left off the last time you had a chat or a topic that is light and interesting. A good humor as a conversation starter, according to Dan, will put her at ease immediately.
6. DO NOT talk about your ex or her previous relationships. Do not pry her of very personal or intimate things.
7. DO listen when she talks. Pay attention and listen beyond her spoken words and maintain eye contact. Read between the lines. Most of the time, women convey what they feel, think and wants through their covert acts. Look for cues.
8. DO NOT assume anything. Ask politely for anything that seems to be unclear or hanging. Allow her to explain her side without interrupting.
9. DO NO get drunk! Be sober throughout the duration of your date.
10. DO offer to bring her home. This will impress to her further how much you care for her welfare and safety.
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3 Comments so far:
11. make sure that she doesn't think you're "too nice".... believe it or not, a lot of girls get turned off by overly gentlemanly behavior. Trust your gut feel and gauge if she likes you likes you, or she just likes you.
The "don't assume anything" bothers me a bit. Don't turn off your radar just because you want her to thnk that you're a gentleman.
There's such a thing as "asking for a kiss nicely and respectfully", you know.
hehe. thanks for that nice comment on my blog. I'll link you up.
What I understand, women (you) hate men who are assuming. Correct me if I am wrong. The key here is being able to make a move when there is a hint or when it is called for.
Agree, asking politely/nicely for a kiss or anything else (*winks)is desirable. ^^,
Thanks for the visit too, and the link.
Cheers!
12. Do not act like you're scandalized she comes on to you. It's insulting. (hehe)
There ARE aggressive girls out there, honey. On one hand, it is best not to assume anything, but on the other hand, it is best to keep an open mind. Some girls express their liking more through actions than words.
Have a nice day. :D